I now have a totally new perspective on holiday season and see it all in a new light. I also have a new appreciation for January – who would have thought that a month that sees such depression numbers rocket could give me such joy! But Christmas this year was unique and certainly not comparable to my normal flurry of joy. I normally have my house decorated to an inch of its life, have cranberry sauce bubbling on the stove, bows and wrapping paper everywhere, the biggest Christmas tree I can find and to do lists galore. This year I had triplets.
When juggling four children military timing is key. Once you keep everything on a tight timeline, everyone is happy. Deviate from this and it can tumble into chaos quite easily. I knew the holidays was going to be a challenge. Creche was closing, my minder was going home to her family and my own family were skipping off to the sun. I had arranged a patchwork of help that was slightly fractured but very possible. Unfortunately, I didn’t factor in a sick baby in hospital.
Isn’t it always the case, one thing goes wrong then everything goes wrong! Its all a bit of a blur now but those two weeks were hell. Poor little Abigail was in hospital with a bad dose of RSV Bronchilitis. This has been a bad year for sick babies and Ireland’s wet, damp weather has not helped. All my girls have had RSV and unfortunately it won’t go until winter passes and they are a bit stronger. I have been in and out of doctors for weeks now and pretty much know all the signs. Three things to watch out for:
- How is their breathing? Are they panting? When you look at them – does it look like they are using their rib cage to breath?
- Are they feeding? Can they keep a feed down? If vomiting, they can get dehydrated pretty quickly.
- Do they have a temperature? When very small this can be quite serious and usually means they are trying to fight something.
So January is here and I have never jumped out of bed with such a spring in my step. 2016 is full of promise. The girls are just going to keep getting stronger and brighter every day (and maybe learn to sleep through the night!!!). My little boy is full of wonder and vigor for life. And I am reaching a very big milestone number this year- 40!! So yes it wasn’t the best Christmas in the traditional sense but wow – look where I am now. Mum of four great kids who keep me on my toes and I wouldn’t have it any other way. Roll on 2016!
This month is all about sleep and stretching the night sleep. The girls are doing fantastic so far and all the hard work is paying off. It definitely pays to keep day as day! In other words, our house is not a silent place during the day, the girls get play time on their mat, change of outfit and nap in their bouncers. I keep the cot for night sleep and have started diming lights from about 7.30pm to get the idea across that its sleep time. We have a feeding frenzy every evening which is exausting and they can be very cranky. However, once down, they get a dream feed at 11ish and sleep till 5.30/6am. In the longterm this will be well worth it……